Are you a listener?

Credit to: Pn Salhah's note-ABA 4023

Salam.

Actually this poem (maybe..) attracted me to understanding how to listen.. yeah, listening is not one-sided activity.. its part of communication which person deliver and receive the messages.. it is happening for rest of our life.. then sometimes problems occur caused of communication.. sometimes no one willing to listen to your voice..no one bother what do you try to express..you cannot let your heart voice being heard..no one understand you..only you know yourself ... it just waste of time to seek attention ..to seek help.. no one appreciate you..not recognize your existence.. no one care about you.. then, you feel, "I'm alone..I'm helpless.."

but one thing that you do not realize is... that's your own script.. your irrational belief take place in your mind.. all you see are miserably.. maybe some of us ever did something like this.. we trapped ourselves unconsciously into irrational thinking..

well, if you are given trust by people to share their problem..appreciate it.. do you know that counselors need to build the relationship that really appreciate trust of clients who are seek for help..and that's not easy... just imagine someone who is strange just want to enter your inner world, do you let them easily get into it..?

Be a good listener...help others and Allah helps you..insya Allah..